What are some time wasters in your life? Do you spend a lot of time playing on Facebook? Do you drive around town doing chores? Do you watch too much television?
A system to organize your life will help you make the most
of the little time your life seems to have. By putting this system into place,
you will feel more happy and free. We’ve talked about calendars and time
before. Now let’s see if we can put everything together, make your life more
organized and free up some time to relax, take a long, hot bath, read a good
book or maybe even take a nap.
Take a few minutes to think about what you did today. You
probably hoped to perform a series of tasks. Did you finish everything you
intended to do? If not, you need some help. Make a schedule. You do not have to
mark down every minute of the day, but a general idea of what you have to do.
Think about how long it takes to do each task and make time for them all. If
you don’t have time to do everything on your list, then be honest with yourself
and remove/reschedule the non-essential tasks (you can always have a ‘wish list’ for the
non-essentials). Figure out when you need to drive somewhere, eat your meals
and walk the family dog. All of those things take time. When you are finished
your calendar, you will see what you should accomplish in a week. It might vary from week to
week, but one week is a good starting point.
The first thing you will notice is that you get a lot more
accomplished than you thought. But, you can do more. Schedule times to do those
relaxing things like reading. A few minutes to mentally refuel the tank go a
long way toward your peace of mind. Make sure you eat when you should to avoid
overeating when you should not. A good breakfast is not just brain food for
your kids.
By scheduling time to do certain tasks, they will not
snowball and turn into monster-sized jobs. For example, if you do laundry every
Monday and Thursday you will never end up with a mountain of laundry. Taking
small bites of work is a lot easier than waiting until the task becomes
massive.
Once your schedule is set, give it a try. See
how close you are to the schedule for a week. Tweak it if necessary, for the
following week. Eventually, you will come up with something that you can live
with and help you manage your time more effectively.