Cindy Bernstein of Aim 4 Order, offers hope for the overwhelmed, untidy and organizationally-challenged. The Aim 4 Order Blog is intended to help those who want to feel better about their homes and themselves.
Monday, August 20, 2012
Controlling Crafts!
Crafts can take on a life of their own, especially when you are an artsy/creative type person. Every scrap, swatch or button has limitless potential and for many people, it seems wise to hold on to it all because “You never know when it will come in handy.’ The consequence of this way of thinking is CLUTTER.
There are a few things you can do to tame the crafts. Most importantly, beware of impulse buying. Before you step foot into a crafts store or department, plan ahead what you are going to buy. Resist great sales of the things you already have plenty of. So many people have unopened scrapbooking items, yarn, fabrics, kits and more....and due to space limitations, end up having to get rid of the excess in order to make a room functional again. Try this on your next shopping trip – if there is a "too great to resist" product that you see, ask them to hold it for you for 24 hours. If you still want it in 24 hours, then you can return to the store. If you lose your craving to have it, then you can celebrate the extra gift of space you have given yourself.
Next, gather all of your crafts from all over your home and spread them out on the floor. Group like things together. For example, find all of your yarns and group them by color or texture. Get rid of the yarns that are either old, smelly or have insufficient quantities. Then, find a container to hold the yarns. Containers don’t have to be fancy. Ziploc flexible totes are a great new product in two sizes that works well for yarn. If you have many knitting needles, take inventory of what you have. Write the sized needles you have on an index card and you can even carry it with you to help you not buy the same sized needles again for your next project.
If drawing or painting is your thing, gather everything together and put all of your brushes together, all of your paints together, all of your paper together and all of your miscellaneous painting tools together. If you have 8 of the same exact brush type, perhaps you can let a few go. If you have paper that is faded, crumpled or not something you use anymore, recycle it! If you have spiral pads with very old sketches, perhaps you’re willing to rip out the ones you love most and let the rest go or scan them.
Plastic bins can be useful for various supplies. Bins of all sizes are available at local stores and if there are lids, you can stack 2-3 on top of each other to allow you to easily access them. Make sure you evaluate what you have before you purchase containers. You want to make sure your containers are the right size for the quantities you have.
There are lots of little supplies like beads, buttons, bangles and more that go along with crafting. Some toolboxes or fishing lure cases can be used to organize the smaller items. If all of your beads and buttons are in one spot, you will not waste precious time searching for them when you need them.
For people who craft, there may be project bags all over with projects in various stages of completion. Ideally, you should finish old projects before you start new ones, but that’s a real challenge for many people. You might want to assign a space for “unfinished projects” so they are at least tucked away and not taking up valuable floor or shelf space. If you have a project that has sat unfinished for more years than you can remember, it might be time to say farewell. Just close your eyes and let it go. Sometimes new space is more important than holding on to unfinished business.
If you have some knit or crochet projects that are halfway finished, either finish them or frog them. Frogging is a term used for when you un-knit or un-crochet a project because you… rrrrrrippp it, rrrrripppp it! If you know you will never finish it, or if it not turning out the way you had hoped, better to frog it and put the yarn away for another project later.
Paints, glue, glitter, markers and other artistic products can dry out, spill or otherwise make a mess if they tip over. Take inventory of what you have and if it is unfit for use, get rid of it. You’ll also be able to see how many of each type of item you have which will help you in your quest to not overbuy the same items.
Location is another important thing to pay attention to when organizing. The rule of thumb here is to place the crafts that you use the most in the most convenient, easy to reach spaces. Items that are used periodically should be in farther away spots. You will be amazed at the time you will save in placing the more frequently used items in nearby spaces.
Crafting is a wonderful way to spend your spare time. Giving a personalized or homemade gift can be much more appreciated than something purchased from a store. But the supplies for your crafts should not overrun your home. Keep them at bay in their own area, either in a room, closet or cabinet, depending on how much space you have for the items. It will be easier to find what you need when you know where everything is kept.
Monday, August 13, 2012
Successful Strategies for Starting the School Year
It is already August and the new school year looms overhead. There is no way avoid it. Just take a deep breath, hold it for a few seconds and let it out slowly. Ready?
It’s time to
tackle jumping into the back to school madness. Many people put it off until
the last minute. I don’t recommended it, because it will add stress to you and
your whole family. The kids already have enough anxiety about starting the new
school year. You do not want to add any more drama.
Setting up a
plan of attack is critical. The school might send a list of suggested supplies,
and that is a good starting point. You will undoubtedly have to add things to
it and cross off items you already have. What can you salvage from last year?
Pens, pencils, paper… And then there is the big money question – are there
enough computers in your house? Will everyone be able to do their schoolwork
with the number of computers available?
You will
need a notebook or folder for each child. Keeping the kids’ school assignments,
class trip release forms and all other school-related papers should be in one
location. You should also have a big calendar for everyone to use, coordinating
all events. Kids can mark when they have tests, field trips and half days. You
can add teacher conference appointments or anything else pertaining to the
school year.
Some school
supplies can be purchased online. It might save you time to do it that way.
There are less distractions for the kids. However, if you are a “hands on”
person, you probably want to go to the store, and you will save money on
shipping.
One of the
biggest chores is dealing with clothing. As kids are growing, last year’s
clothes probably do not fit as well as they once did. And, your kids want to
wear what all of the other kids are wearing. You should probably have the child
try on some things, but go through the clothing and figure out what you have
and what you need. Don’t forget shoes. Add everything to your list. Maybe a
younger child can use some of the other child’s clothing. If no one can use the
items and they are still in good shape, get together a donation for Goodwill,
AmVets or another worthwhile charity.
The next
chore is the backpack. Some backpacks look bigger than the kids toting them.
Try to find an appropriately sized backpack that is big enough to accommodate everything
your child will need. You can assign a certain section of the backpack for
important papers and go through it each night to make sure you see all papers
that are sent home.
If you have
little athletes, you will probably need a doctor’s visit. Medical forms need to
be completed before they can play sports. You may need to update sports gear
and clothing.
When there
are less bathrooms than people – and that is usually the case – a shower
schedule might need to be put into play. Some kids like to take a shower the
night before, especially those who have a hard time getting up in the
morning.
One of the
most difficult things to schedule is the morning exit strategy. If any of the
children changed schools this year, it might throw off the last year’s morning
routine. Who has to be at school at what time? Do they walk or take the bus?
Does a parent drive them? Can you coordinate everyone’s schedule with your own
work schedule? What about a carpool?
After a week
or so, this should get easier. You could even attempt a practice run before
school starts. Try it during the normal school time so that you get an accurate
view of the traffic.
Take the
pressure off the whole family and try to complete the back to school chores as
early as possible. You will feel like a giant weight has been lifted once you
are finished.
Monday, August 6, 2012
Tips for Timeliness
These days time can be even more valuable than money. Time is finite. There are only so many hours in a day and some of those should be allocated for sleeping. The ability to prioritize is so important, yet many of us struggle with deciding what has to be done verses what we wish we could do. It helps if we can think in terms of the here and now. What is most important for you to do today? What can you put off or simply not do today?
Using your time wisely
is something that can make your day go better. If you get overwhelmed, you
might have to say no to some activities. Turning down fun things is not ideal.
Saying no to people who you’d like to please is very difficult. If you learn
how to prioritize and budget time more effectively, you can learn to make time
for the things that are most important to you.
Multitasking is a
wonderful thing, however, there are people who try to do too much at once and
end up doing a poor job at everything. Tackling one job at a time can often be
a better use of time. There was a time when I was proud to be a great
multi-tasker. These days it feels more serene to focus on one activity at a
time.
Another issue is
overbooking and/or overpromising. Even with all the wonderful technological
advances, it’s still difficult to be two places at the same time. When we
over-commit, someone usually ends up disappointed or angry. Instead, teach
yourself (or ask for help in learning how) to better estimate realistic,
achievable daily goals. Make sure you assign enough time for each task on your
list and remember to add time for travel and any necessary stops along the way.
Waiting in line is
something that we have no control over and can eat up a substantial chunk of
time. Try to do things like grocery shopping, buying gas, going to the bank and
other chores when the businesses are not as crowded. Early mornings can be a
good time for grocery shopping. Parking is easier. Lines are shorter. You might
not feel like getting up early just to run errands, but you have to think about
the reward. You’ll have more free time later in the day!
This might sound simple,
but plan ahead. The bank might be on the way to the baseball field where you
have to drop your son. Driving somewhere and back home repeatedly instead of
doing everything in one trip, can waste time, gas and money.
Think about what you
need to do each day next week. Plan it out. You might say, “Wait a minute,
planning out my week is going to take time!” But after you have it planned, you
will use your time more efficiently and the planning will get easier week by
week.
Most bills can be paid
online. Several banks have both direct deposit and online banking. Going to the
bank may soon become obsolete. You can digitally set up monthly payments to
automatically come out of your account on a certain date. Using online banking
features can save time writing out checks every month. Just make sure you keep
track of what is going in and out of your account. Most banks have mobile
versions of their websites too, making banking very convenient no matter where
you are.
Time to get real… Admit
that you waste time – everyone does it. Figure out what wastes your time and
make an effort to do something constructive instead. Maybe instead of getting
lost in Facebook, you can take 5 minutes and unsubscribe from a few junk e-mail
lists. While you are waiting for your daughter at the doctor’s office,
you can read over some documents that came in the mail that you haven’t had
time to read at home.
Around the house, tackle
the little jobs before they grow into a monster-sized job that will overwhelm
you. Doing a load of laundry a couple nights a week instead of waiting until
you run out of underwear makes the task seem less daunting. Cleaning the
kitchen and bathroom more often will take less time than waiting until the crud
has built up everywhere.
Monday, July 30, 2012
Easy Does It, Wins the Race
Did you ever notice that
people seem to have so much to do these days? You ask someone how they are and
they tell you “busy.” We all strive to get things done in life. It can be
frustrating to spend more time spinning our wheels and less time actually doing
things. You know you really want to get yourself and your life organized, but
aren’t sure how to start.
There are various tasks
you want to do. It might be cleaning out the basement. Maybe it is organizing
the kids’ closets. And the kitchen — it needs organizing too. Whatever it is,
divide the task into smaller parts so the job doesn’t seem so intimidating. Rome
wasn’t built in a day. Try setting
small achievable goals that you can do in a short period of time. Spending 15
minutes and completing one task can result in a great feeling of
accomplishment. Many times people set unrealistic goals and expectations which
cause overwhelm and frustration before we even begin!
The first objective is
to figure out what your ultimate goal is. Once you know that, you are well on
your way. Divide it into parts. You can simply make a list. A lot of people
have great success just from putting ideas down on paper. Really break the task
down into its smallest parts. The more parts you have, the easier each little
job will be. If and when you get stuck, try to think about the next action you
need to take to get closer to your goal. You will be clicking off your
accomplishments almost effortlessly.
If you have no idea how
to get started, you are certainly not alone. There is a lot of help out there
for people trying to set goals and achieve them. Of course, Aim 4 Order can
always show you the way. One of our goals is to help you achieve yours. There
are also some websites, and even some smart phone apps, that can help.
Goals on Track
is a phone app that can help you stay on course with your goals anywhere. The
nice thing about this app is that it charts your progress as you go. Seeing
results gives you encouragement to keep going to the next challenge. CAUTION --
if you are not able to quickly understand how to use the app, move on. The last
thing you want to do is waste hours of time on the internet. OK?
Joe’s Goals is a program
you can get for free. According to Joe,
this system worked for him. You can list tasks and days of the week to do each
task. This program includes “negative goals” or vices that detract from
accomplishing objectives on your list. It’s kind of a fun way to get things
done, and also see what stumbling blocks throw you off your game.
Google Docs is becoming
a very popular way to store lots of documents. You can be anywhere with
internet access, and get to your documents. By using spreadsheets in Google Docs, you can keep track of your goals and set them up however you want them. You can
make a column of goals and set up a row for each day of the week. Next to each
goal, place a check mark as they are completed in the column for that day.
However, try not to let the software become something that keeps you from
getting things accomplished. That defeats the purpose of it.
These programs might be
a good way to make sense of things. On the other hand, your way might be more
basic. You might make a list on a piece of paper and put a line through each
one as you do it. The main idea is to get things done. Set your goals, divide
them into smaller chunks and then go after them one by one.
Monday, July 23, 2012
Linens Away!
How to avoid a
linen avalanche
It’s time to
change bed linens and you go to the closet. When you open the door of your
linen closet, will a pile of towels come tumbling out? If so, it’s probably
time to clean and organize your closet.
Unfortunately,
the first step in cleaning the closet is to completely empty it. Thoroughly
clean each shelf. A 10% bleach to 90% water mixture will clean any mold and
mildew while making the closet smell clean. Once it air dries, you can start to
put things back inside.
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| Organize linens and towels. |
You can cover
the shelves if you want to perk up the look of the closet. Non-acid paper can
be used. An alternative is using rubbery shelf liner. It will keep stacks of
linen from sliding around wooden closet shelves.
Generally,
shelves can be moved closer together and you can even add some and make more
surface area. If you decrease the amount of space between shelves, the stacks
of linens will be shorter and less likely to topple over. If the shelves are
not easily moved, you can put dividers between the stacks of towels and other
linens. This will help keep them upright. You may even consider putting a towel
rack or two on the back of the closet door so you can hang things there.
Some people
use Space Bags, or
other types of sealed bags with the air sucked out of them, to store winter
blankets or other seasonal items. While using those bags compacts the contents,
you will still need to leave a bit of space for them. If large comforters can
find a home in a bedroom closet, you can clear out a lot more room for other
linens.
Small items
like travel size shampoos and soaps often end up scattered all over the closet.
Add some clear bins, so you can see what is inside, to keep the little
containers in one location.
If you decide
to hang onto heirloom linens like tablecloths and cloth napkins, keep those
items up higher in the closet. They are more difficult to clean so avoid
putting them on the floor unless they are in sealed containers that will keep
them from getting dirty.
If there is
space in the dining room, tablecloths may be stored there instead of the linen
closet. You will now have easier access to them when you need to dress up the
table and free up more space in the linen closet for sheets and towels.
Towels can be
sorted by size or color, whatever works best for you. A good rule of thumb is
to keep about two to three sets of sheets per bed and the same number of towel
sets for each person in the house. Excess towels can make great rags or can be
used for pets, donated or given away.
Have you ever
located a fitted sheet and then spend the next 15 minutes sorting through
everything looking for the matching flat sheet? You are not alone! Fold the
sheets and put one inside the other, along with the pillowcases. Some people
tuck all the sheets inside of the matching pillowcase. Finding the complete set
will now be breeze.
Sometimes
linen closets have a musty smell. An inexpensive little box of baking soda,
changed on a monthly basis, can go a long way to help with closet odors. There
are all kinds of air fresheners and potpourri products that will make any
closet smell wonderful. Mothballs can keep insects at bay, but may transfer
their odor to the linens.
After you put
everything back into the closet, it will smell great. Think about how easy it
will be to find the towel you want or the fresh set of sheets. There may be a
nice stack of things to donate or give away. On the surface it might not seem
like a big deal, but in the end you will have a fantastic feeling of
accomplishment.
Friday, July 13, 2012
Ready, Set, Emergency!
The recent
storms got me thinking about emergencies. Every person and family should have
some kind of plan in case there is a dramatic weather event, fire, blizzard or
any other type of emergency that might happen. Remember that earthquake?
According to the t.v. news, a lot of people did what you should do for a
tornado, which is not necessarily the right thing for an earthquake. Who knew?
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During an
earthquake, you should stay indoors until the earthquake is over. Most people
who are injured, get hurt while going outside when the earthquake is still
ongoing. Stay away from big windows, large light fixtures, ceiling fans or
other things that might break and fall on you. If you happen to be in bed, stay
there and put the pillow over your head. Duck under a table if there is a
sturdy one nearby. There is not a lot of time during an earthquake to do much
of anything.
When there is a
tornado, head for the lowest point in the residence, the basement works well.
If there is no basement, go to a room with no windows, like a bathroom, closet
or hallway. Flying glass can be deadly, avoid it as much as you can. Usually
with tornadoes, you have a few minutes to get ready before it hits, unlike an
earthquake. If any big storm with high winds is expected, secure anything
around the house that might be swept away.
Young and
healthy people should have a plan for checking in with disabled or older family
members if a big storm rolls through. Don’t forget your neighbors who might
need help. If you live alone, I’m sure you know someone else who lives alone –
you can check on each other. Some people even have a list of people to call
just to make sure everything is okay.
Not only
should you have a checklist for people, there are some supplies you should
always keep on hand in case of an emergency. Often times the power goes out
during these situations, so you need to be ready beforehand. Unfortunately,
many of us got a taste of that recently when storms ripped through the area.
About half of the Baltimore metro area lost power, some people for several
days.
Supplies:
- Always have flashlights with spare batteries. Headlamps, used for camping and spelunking, are great for allowing hands-free lighting. Keep a stock of D batteries on hand because most of the lanterns only take Ds.
- A battery operated NOAA Weather Radio (or any radio) will allow you to get updates on storm watches and warnings.
- Some paper and pens or pencils will come in handy in case you hear about something important on the radio. You could jot down emergency numbers or where cooling centers, ice distribution centers or shelters are located.
- A first aid kit for any injuries is very important. Don’t forget to check the kit at least once a year to make sure nothing is expired.
- Your medications might be vital to your survival. You should never completely run out of your medications. Always keep at least a week’s worth on hand, if possible.
- Hand sanitizer comes in handy when water is in short supply.
- Toilet paper and other personal hygiene products are a must.
- If you have kids, it is really important to store away some things to amuse them. Without computers, sketchy or no cell service or no electricity, your kids will get antsy! Keep them occupied with coloring or activity books, books to read, crossword puzzles, anything that doesn’t require power. Don’t forget classic board games. A deck of cards doesn’t take up much space and people of just about any age can amuse themselves playing alone or as a group.
Food and
Drink:
- It is recommended to keep 1-3 gallons of water on hand for each person in the house. Three gallons are appropriate for a multi-day disaster. Having Gatorade, Ensure or other nutrient-filled beverage would be a bonus to have on hand.
- Foods that do not have to be refrigerated usually have a long shelf life. If you have a lot of canned food, make sure you have a manual can opener. Here’s your chance to get your fill of beef jerky!
- Try to always have a week’s worth of pet food on supply. You don’t want to share that beef jerky with the family dog.
It might sound
silly, but businesses and families should practice fire safety. Fire drills
were always a chore in school, but when there is a fire, it is extremely
important to know what to do. Figure out how you and your pets can evacuate
quickly. Small children should learn what to do in order to stay safe. If
someone is disabled or elderly, knowing how to deal with them during an
emergency may be the difference between life and death for that person.
Have a great,
safe time and try to always be prepared. You never know when bad weather or
other emergencies are going to happen.
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Got TOOLS?
Have you ever
needed a hand or power tool unexpectedly and it’s not where you thought you put
it? It can be frustrating when you have to stop right in the middle of a
project and start a search for something. If only your tools were
organized…
For some
people, it may be as easy as putting a hammer, pliers and two screwdrivers in a
drawer. DIY (do it yourself) fans and most homeowners, have a large collection
of hand tools, power tools, nails, screws, nuts and bolts, saws, a variety of
pliers, the list goes on and on. So, is there a good strategy for organizing
everything? Of course there is!
A lot of
people like using a pegboard to organize hand tools. In the end, they are all
hanging, with enough space between them to easily remove one tool without
knocking a bunch of other tools off the wall. The best part of this system is
that you can see everything. In a matter of seconds, you can grab a hand saw,
hammer and whatever else you might need for a project.
Power tools
come in their own carrying cases and can be organized on shelves or under the
workbench. If it doesn’t have a carrying case and doesn’t fit easily on the
pegboard, you can get a plastic container for it. Most power tools have
attachments, bits, blades or other things that should be kept with the item,
which is why the cases are so nice. If it is hard to tell at a glance what case
holds which tool, mark the containers with a Sharpie (they come in metallic
colors that can write on dark containers) or put a piece of masking tape on the container and write on the tape.
Screws, nuts,
bolts and other hardware should be organized into plastic containers or
specially made cabinets that have tiny drawers to hold whatever you have. The
little cabinets are great, but can be expensive. Sometimes they are sold with
the hardware already inside. You can end up buying a lot of little tiny screws
that you may never need.
A more
reasonable solution is a plastic 3-drawer container for about $15-20or craft storage bins. You can keep the hardware either in the containers they
came in or in disposable Gladware containers. Gladware or Rubbermaid conveniently make containers in a variety of sizes. Get clear
containers so you can see what is inside. If you are a recycler, some deli
meats come in plastic containers that can be reused for storing little items.
Baby food jars are another favorite for organizing small hardware. Place
whatever containers you use by type and/or size in the drawers, and later they
can be found when needed.
A toolbox is
another matter entirely.
Things tend to get thrown in a toolbox as a project
progresses and left in there for all eternity. After a project is completely
finished, the hardware and project specific items should go back in the drawers
or on the pegboard. Yes, the toolbox should be organized at the end of
every project. Only keep basic items like a hammer, a few screwdrivers, pliers,
a tape measure, pencil, flashlight and other things you use regularly in the
toolbox. If you put too much in there, it will either be so heavy you can
barely lift it or you won’t be able to close it.
OK — now for
THE TALK — I would be remiss if I didn’t make mention of those of you with
more tools than you potentially will ever need or use. If you have every hammer
that your father, grandfather and dear uncle used, along with all the ones
you’ve gotten at flea markets and hardware stores along the years... it might
be time to downsize your hammers. Be gentle, but be honest with yourself. I am
guessing that you likely use 20% of your tools, 80% of the time. See if you can
possibly part with at least the rusty/broken/need-to-repair tools first. Then
you can look at selecting your top 2-3 favorite screwdrivers (or top 5-8
maybe?) and continue with the process for all of your duplicate tools. When you
downsize tools, you have a much better chance of fitting them in whatever containers
you have waiting patiently to be filled.
Enjoy the DIY
craze of fixing or building things on your own. You will be amazed at the added
enjoyment you will have if you can keep that basement, garage, shed or wherever
you keep your tools organized so you know what you have and where it is. I
promise, with everything where you can find it, the DIY experience will be
better.
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